Latest Law Related Forum Topics:

  • Fingerprints for food stamps? (1 post)
  • Can i fight one citation and go to traffic school for the other? (3 posts)
  • being watched by the cops? (17 posts)
  • The local police want me to come in to talk with them re: "court". Does that mean I will be arrested? (4 posts)
  • Fake Police? (9 posts)
  • Do you think R.Kelly should go to jail? (19 posts)
  • 25 years in the slammer? (4 posts)
  • Can a city COP get a ticket from a CHP while on patrol? (12 posts)
  • Can a male police officer force a female out the car if he stops her for no seatbelt, and no female cop there? (10 posts)
  • What are your thoughts on anarchy, can you name a positive and a negative effect it would have on society? (5 posts)
  • prison visitation form, room for only 1 charge? (5 posts)
  • My son was involved in a hit and run saturday,? (4 posts)
  • I ran a red light by accident. Help!!!? (8 posts)
  • I want him arrested? (10 posts)
  • Are the people who oppose nudity claiming it is to protect kids just hopeless prudes themselves? Why imply to- (14 posts)
  •  
    Author Message

    Green

    Members


    Online status

    238 posts

    Location: Wallis And Futuna Islands
    Occupation: Referee
    Age:

    #104553   2008-04-08 13:09 GMT      
    Her mom and her our aunt new that this was happening, the man was her moms boyfriend at the time. I didn't know any of this until last year, my cousin never said a WORD. Her mom still talks to this man like if nothing happened but there together anymore, he still comes to the house and fixes the TV or whatever there having problems with ONCE IN A WHILE. Our aunt knew something was up and then finally my cousin came clean one day and then my aunt told her mom - she just slapped him and then got back with him, he molested her a few more times and then she left him. Well my aunt has told everybody in the family about this but my cousin and her mom don't know that everybody knows. My cousin only thinks that me and my sister know, but shes wrong. I want to do something, can he still go to jail if we report him to the police - or is this too late? I am going to ask my mom to do this because my cousin told me not to do anything.
    When he comes around my cousin says hi and even hugs him sometimes, and so do her little sisters - my aunt doesn't do anything!! But my cousin doesn't either!! They both just let it happen and they have NEVER talked about this problem not even when it happened. My aunt blames my cousin for not stopping him and just letting him do it. I've told my cousin mroe then 5 times to do something and to talk to her mom and she doesn't. Keep in mind that this man was ALSO molested by three woman when he was little.

    DarkDemon

    Members


    Online status

    282 posts

    Location: Kuwait
    Occupation: School superintendent
    Age:

    #104554   2008-04-08 13:16 GMT      
    Call your state police and ask them what the law is. Usually you can report them if it happened less than 10 years ago.

    RadioActive

    Members


    Online status

    284 posts

    Location: Seychelles
    Occupation: Screenwriter
    Age:

    #104555   2008-04-08 13:17 GMT      
    No its not to late turn that sicko in.

    DonkeyKong

    Members


    Online status

    246 posts

    Location: St. Helena
    Occupation: Mason
    Age:

    #104556   2008-04-08 13:19 GMT      
    It is not to late to file a police report.

    StreetRacer

    Members


    Online status

    236 posts

    Location: Malta
    Occupation: Business owner
    Age:

    #104557   2008-04-08 13:19 GMT      
    report it, i dont think there is a statue of limitations for under age sex crimes.

    GiddyUp

    Members


    Online status

    248 posts

    Location: Guinea
    Occupation: Wet nurse
    Age:

    #104558   2008-04-08 13:48 GMT      
    it's not to late to call the police and get the guy in jail.


    if your mom doesn't do anything...please get in contact with the police yourself.

    sadly (as you pointed out with your family) people know and don't do anything, or blame the victim.

    Chips

    Members


    Online status

    285 posts

    Location: Burundi
    Occupation: Chief of Police
    Age:

    #104559   2008-04-08 22:44 GMT      
    Ok first off don't blame your cousin. Chances are she's really young right? I think your cousin has come to see this guy as a father figure, and she interprets the molestation as a) the only way to get his love and attention b) to her it feels good. Now as for the guy that did this to her- yes he can still be arrested and charged. Here in Canada there's no time limit for pressing charges for indictable offences. He would defintly be charged with;

    sexual interference: "Every person who, for a sexual purpose, touchs either directly/indirectly with a part of the body or with an object, any part of the body of a person under 14 years old. If it's tried as a summary offence he's looking at a minimum of 14 days in jail up to a maximum of 18 months. If the crown tries it as indictable then he's facing a minimum of 45 days in jail and up to a max of 10 years in prison

    Sexual Assault: Maximum of 10 years in prison

    Sexual Assault with a weapon; If he touched her or raped her while carrying a weapon, threatning to cause bodily harm to a third party, caused bodily harm to your cousin. If he used a gun during the offence he's facing a minimum of 4 years in prison up to a max of 14 years in prison.

    Aggravated Sexual Assault: If he injured her during the rape to the point she was seriously injured he could be facing up to life in prison

    Forcible Confinement: If your cousin was confied to a room and not physically allowed to leave, he could face this charge. It carrys a max penalty of 10 years in prison.

    Oh and please tell your cousin she has nothing to be ashamed of or scared of. This guy did a sick horrible thing to her, and he needs to be locked up, otherwise he will do this to other little girls.

    Your going to have to make this call yourself, your aunt and mom most likely won't do anything to break the cycle. Yes your cousin may hate you but in the long run she will be glad you did this.

    Also the police are going to interview you, your cousin (espically), your aunt, your mom, and the pedophile. The pedophile will flat out deny any wrongdoing or he will make excuses, your mom will most likely back him up out of fear. Your aunt is probably on the fence so your going to have to convince her this guy needs to be locked up. The police are going to ask your cousin VERY detailed questions, I strongly recommend you stay with her during this. Some questions they might ask her

    1) Can you tell us who molested you?

    2) Did your mom's boyfriend ever make you feel unsafe?

    3) Has your mom's boyfriend ever hit you or threaten you?

    4) Has your mom's boyfriend ever kissed you? If so can you tell me where?

    5) Has your mom's boyfriend ever touched your privates?

    6) Has your mom's boyfriend ever made you touch his privates

    7) Has your mom ever placed his penis inside your vagina?

    Can you remember what day(s) and time(s) he's molested you on?

    9) Has your mom's boyfriend ever made you promise not to tell anyone?
    > 1 <